弟子规的心得体会

在阅读《弟子规》的心得体会中，我深深感受到了古人的智慧和对道德规范的尊重。这本书不仅是一本教育读物，更是一本生活指南，它教会了我如何做人、做事，如何处理人际关系。通过反复阅读，我逐渐领悟到了“孝悌”的重要性，明白了尊老爱幼是中华民族的传统美德。同时，我也学会了如何在日常生活中实践“礼让”、“诚信”、“勤奋”等价值观。这些心得体会不仅让我受益匪浅，也让我更加深刻地理解了中华文化的精髓。我相信，只要我们每个人都能从《弟子规》中学到知识，提升自己的道德修养，我们的社会就会变得更加和谐美好。

In my reading of Disciple's Rules, I deeply felt the wisdom of the ancients and their respect for moral norms. This book is not only an educational book, but also a guide to life, which teaches me how to behave, do things, and how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Through repeated reading, I gradually realized the importance of filial piety and fraternal duty, and understood that respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. At the same time, I also learned how to practice the values of "courtesy", "honesty" and "diligence" in my daily life. These experiences have not only benefited me a lot, but also made me understand the essence of Chinese culture more deeply. I believe that as long as each of us can learn from the "Rules of Discipleship" and improve our moral cultivation, our society will become more harmonious and beautiful.

弟子规的心得体会 篇1

　　《弟子规》，就是把圣人教育贯彻到生活中，文化是一个连续的传递过程。学习的过程就是一个认同的过程，而对自身产生影响则是一个潜移默化的过程。例如，我们学习《弟子规》，背诵下来应该是很容易的事情，但是真正对一个人产生有益的影响，那就需要时间来。一个人处世必定有一些原则，在他们潜意识中受到这些原则的制约。

　　一种思想理念在中华大地上延续了几十年，这里的人民哪里还可能不会受到影响呢？《弟子规》中要求我们先端正品德。其中包括孝、悌、礼、仁、忠等。在做到这些后，它又教了我们一些学习方法。不但要认真学，还要实践，这样才能真正地读好书，成为有用之才。

　　在孝方面，就应按《弟子规》讲的"父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，行勿懒。父母教，需献听；父母责，须顺承。"最起码做到这些，才能对得住苦养自己成人的父母。深切体会后，才发现自己做的不够；另一方面，自己作为父母，在引导孩子熟读的同时，应该让他们慢慢品出其中的真谛，潜移默化，从小养成良好的品行，为日后健康成长奠定良好的基础，这也是作为父母最大的收益。

　　其次，《弟子规》里，我读到了诚信。为人处世，除了孝道，就是诚信了。诚信为本，诚信也是国人所追求和倡导的一个基本素质。任何时候，任何朝代，一个人立于世，只要开口说话，首先就要讲究信用，欺诈不实的言语，在社会上是不可能永远行得通的。同时还要注意的是，话说得多不如说得少。凡事实实在在，不要讲些花言巧语。

　　另外，从《弟子规》里，我还读到了仁爱，提示自己对身边的人要有颗关怀爱护的心，如同苍天与大地，绝对没有私心、坏心，不论好人、坏人、聪明的.、愚笨的、尊贵的、贫贱的，不同国界、不同种族都一样给予保护和承载，这就是一片仁慈之心，不为名利也毫无虚假。

　　和古人相比，我们的品行已经落后的太远太远了，今天能重温传统文化感到非常幸运，很感恩《弟子规》作者李毓秀，要感恩唯有认真学习《弟子规》并学以致用，用《弟子规》来规范言行，指导生活和学习，培养自己孝亲尊师，温和谦逊的品德，想《弟子规》中写的，以恭敬的心，谦卑的态度，彬彬有礼的行为，来对待一切人、事、物，不断提升自己的品行修养，"事诸父，如事父，事诸兄，如事兄"。

　　读弟子规后的心得体会四：

　　《弟子规》原名叫《训蒙文》，是依据儒家先师孔子的教诲编写而成的。这本书文字浅显，却教给人们为人处世的道理。我读了我们矿女工委推荐的这本书，深深地感到了矿女工委的良苦用心，是为了让我们女职工从理念上、思想上引导我们，通过读这本书，增强自己在为人处世，教育子女和孝敬父母等诸多方面的修养，做一个举止文雅、言谈得体、会培养孩子的新时代的女职工。通过这段时间的学习，我受到了一次深刻的国学精粹教育，我主要是从以下几个方面受到了极为深刻的教育：

　　一。出门在外，别忘了给父母报声平安。

　　《弟子规》中说："冬则温夏则清晨则省昏则定出必告反必面"。我最欣赏这里面的"出必告"，就是说，子女出门之前要告知父母去哪里，回来之后，要当面禀告，免得父母担心，挂念。

　　我一开始上班的时候，从来没离开家的我来到矿上上班，我有很长一段时间没有回家。那时候还没有电话和手机。过了三个月后，我父母竟然从几百里路远的老家赶到矿上来看我。我很是不安地对父母说："我在这儿上班挺好的，这么远的路，你们干么非要来啊？"母亲双眼含泪地说："孩子啊，你说的倒是轻松，你知道你来矿上上班的这三个月，我和你爸爸是多挂念你吗？我和你爸爸都整夜整夜地睡不着觉，怕你不适应，怕你工作不顺利，怕你被别人欺负了，怕你不会照顾自己。""妈，我都多大了？你还担心这些？"我说。"你再大也是我的孩子呀！你怎么不能理解父母的心啊？"母亲不满地说。这时，我才真正体会到了父母对我的担心。于是我说："爸，妈，我保证一个月给你们写两封信，这行了吧？"后来，父母接到我的信都很高兴，回信说我越来越懂事了。他们也不再那么担心我了。再后来，电话和手机普及了，我就给他们打电话或是发短信，给他们报我平安。

　　二、在父母生病的时候一定要陪在他们身边。

　　《弟子规》中说："亲有疾，药先尝，昼夜侍，不离床"。意思是说，父母生病的时候，子女应该及时请医生，喝药时子女要先尝。一旦病情加重，更要昼夜服侍，不可以随便离开。几年前，我母亲因患腰椎垫盘托出住院，是父亲和弟弟把母亲送到济南省立医院去治疗。我因为工作忙，只是在中间去看了一趟，留下点钱就匆匆回来上班了。以至于同室的病友说我母亲："怎么不见你大女儿来照顾你？她不是亲生的吗？"听了母亲转述了这句话，我无地自容，难过极了，感到自己没有尽到做女儿的责任，母亲是那么疼爱我，在她需要我的时候，我却不在她的身边。

　　三、要善于听取批评和反面意见。

　　俗话说，金无足尺，人无完人。一个人难免会犯错误，犯了错误要善于听取别人的批评和反面意见，才能改正自己，不然就不会进步。"闻过怒闻誉乐损友来益友却"意思是说，如果听到别人的批评就生气，听到别人的称赞自己就欢喜，那么坏朋友就会越来越多，真正的好朋友反而疏远你。我们都知道，水至清则无鱼，人至察则无徒。做人应该学会宽容，对朋友大度，对自己要求严格，也就是"严以律己，宽以待人"。大家都知道l良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行的道理，在生活和工作中我们要善于听取批评和反对意见，这样才能不断进步。

　　四、给孩子营造良好的学习环境。

　　《弟子规》说：能亲仁无限好德日进过日少不亲仁无限害小人进百事坏。讲的就是学习环境及其周围的人对孩子产生的巨大影响，俗话说，近朱者赤，近墨者黑。我们要多结交品德高尚的朋友，通过和他们学习交流，我们可以取其长处补己之短，这样，我们的品德也会高尚，孩子也会跟着我们受到良好的影响而成为一个道德高尚的人。孟母三迁的故事已经家喻户晓了，我们为人父母的就要为孩子营造一个良好的学习环境和人文环境，促其成才。而不要整天只知道打牌，打麻将，赌博，这对孩子的影响是极为不好的。

　　读书是仁者见仁，智者见智。以上是我读了《弟子规》之后的一些感想和体会，还很粗浅，今后，我还要深入学习这本书，从中汲取更多的营养，不断进步，让自己的人生之路越走越宽广。

Discipleship experience Part 1

　　The Discipline of the Disciples is the implementation of the education of the saints into life, and culture is a continuous process of transmission. The process of learning is a process of identification, and the process of having an impact on oneself is a subtle process. For example, when we learn the Disciple's Rules, it should be easy to memorize them, but it takes time to really have a beneficial effect on a person. A person must have some principles for dealing with the world, and they are subconsciously governed by these principles.

　　Where else could the people here be unaffected by an ideology that has been perpetuated for decades in the land of China? In the Rules of Discipleship, we are asked to first rectify our character. These include filial piety, fraternal duty, propriety, benevolence and loyalty. After doing these, it teaches us some learning methods. Not only should we study carefully, but also practice, so that we can really read well and become useful.

　　In terms of filial piety, one should follow the Disciple's Rules, which says, "Do not be slow to respond to the call of your parents; do not be lazy in carrying out the orders of your parents. If your parents teach you, you must listen to them; if they blame you, you must obey them." At least do these things, in order to be worthy of the parents who have raised themselves to adulthood. After deep experience, I realized that I have not done enough; on the other hand, as a parent, in guiding the children to familiarize themselves with the readings at the same time, they should slowly let them taste the true meaning of it, subtle, and develop a good character from childhood, laying a good foundation for healthy growth, which is also the biggest gain as a parent.

　　Secondly, in the Discipleship Rules, I read about integrity. In addition to filial piety, honesty is the key to being a good person in the world. Honesty and integrity are also a basic quality pursued and advocated by the people of the country. At any time, any dynasty, a person standing in the world, as long as the opening of the mouth to speak, first of all, we must pay attention to the credit, fraudulent and untrue words, in the community is not likely to work forever. At the same time, it should also be noted that the words say more than less. Everything is real, do not say some flowery language.

　　In addition, from the "Disciple's Rules", I also read about benevolence, prompting myself to have a caring and loving heart for those around me, just like the heavens and the earth, absolutely no selfishness, bad intentions, regardless of good people, bad people, smart . No matter good people, bad people, smart, stupid, noble, poor, different borders, different races are the same to give protection and carry, this is a piece of benevolent heart, not for fame and fortune and no false.

　　Compared with the ancients, our character has lagged behind too far too far, today can revisit the traditional culture feel very lucky, very grateful to the "disciple rules" author Li Yuxiu, to be thankful for the only serious study of the "disciple rules" and learn to put it to use, with the "disciple rules" to regulate words and deeds, guide the life and learning, to cultivate their own filial piety and respect for their teachers, gentle and humble character, want to write in the "disciple rules," to the respect of the heart, humble attitude, courteous behavior, to treat all people, things, things, and constantly improve their character cultivation, "as a father, as a father, as a brother, as a brother". I would like to write in the Rules of the Disciples, with a respectful heart, humble attitude, courteous behavior, to treat all people, things, and things, and constantly improve my own character cultivation, "to serve one's father as one would serve one's father, and to serve one's elder brother as one would serve one's elder brother".

　　After reading Discipleship IV:

　　The Disciple's Rules, originally known as the "Training of the Monks", is based on the teachings of Confucius, the forefather of Confucianism. This book is written in simple words, but it teaches people the truth of how to live in the world. I read this book recommended by our mine women's labor committee, and deeply felt the good intention of the mine women's labor committee, is to let us female workers from the concept of the ideological, ideological guide us, through reading this book, to enhance their own in the world, education of children and filial piety to parents and many other aspects of cultivation, to be a manner elegant, well-spoken, and will cultivate the child's new age of the female workers. Through this period of study, I have received a profound education on the essence of nationalism, and I have received extremely profound education mainly from the following aspects:

　　One. Don't forget to tell your parents you're okay when you're out and about.

　　In the Rules of Discipleship, it is said, "In winter, you should be warm in summer and in morning, you should save yourself in the evening and in the evening, you should make sure that you tell your parents where you are going before you go out and that you should tell them face to face when you return". I most appreciate the phrase "to tell", which means that children should tell their parents where they are going before they go out, and after they come back, they should tell them face to face, so that their parents will not worry and miss them.

　　When I started out, I never left home before I came to work at the mine and I didn't go home for a long time. There were no phones or cell phones back then. After three months, my parents traveled hundreds of miles from their hometown to visit me at the mine. I said to my parents with great anxiety, "I'm fine working here, it's a long way, why do you have to come?" My mother said with tears in her eyes, "My son, you are easy to say, do you know how much your father and I missed you during the three months you worked in the mine? Your father and I couldn't sleep all night long, afraid that you wouldn't adapt, afraid that you wouldn't work well, afraid that you would be bullied by others, afraid that you wouldn't be able to take care of yourself."" Mom, how old am I? You're still worried about that?" I said." You're still my child even if you're older! Why can't you understand the heart of a parent?" My mother said with dissatisfaction. It was then that I really realized how worried my parents were about me. So I said, "Dad, mom, I promise to write you two letters a month, is that okay?" Later, my parents were very happy to receive my letters and wrote back that I was getting more and more sensible. They didn't worry about me so much anymore. Later, when telephones and cell phones became popular, I called or texted them to tell them I was safe.

　　Second, you must be there for your parents when they are sick.

　　In the Rules of Discipleship, it is said, "When a parent is sick, the medicine should be tasted first, and the child should serve him day and night without leaving his bed." This means that when a parent is sick, the child should call a doctor in time and taste the medicine first. Once their condition worsens, they should serve them day and night and not leave them at will. A few years ago, my mother was hospitalized with lumbar spinal discs, and it was my father and brother who sent my mother to Jinan Provincial Hospital for treatment. Because I was busy at work, I just went to visit in the middle of the day, left some money and hurried back to work. So much so that a fellow patient said of my mother, "Why don't you see your eldest daughter taking care of you? Isn't she her own?" After listening to my mother relay these words, I was overwhelmed and saddened, feeling that I had not fulfilled my responsibility as a daughter; my mother loved me so much, and when she needed me, I was not by her side.

　　Thirdly, we should be good at listening to criticism and opposing views.

　　As the saying goes, there is no such thing as gold. A person will inevitably make mistakes, mistakes should be good at listening to other people's criticism and negative opinions, in order to correct themselves, otherwise it will not make progress." If you are angry when you hear others' criticisms and happy when you hear others' praises, you will have more and more bad friends, and your really good friends will be distant from you. We all know that there is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple in a person's perception. People should learn to be tolerant, generous to their friends, and strict with themselves, that is, "be strict with yourself, and lenient with others". We all know that good medicine is good for the disease, the truth of the truth, in life and work, we should be good at listening to criticism and opposition, so that we can continue to make progress.

　　Fourth, create a good learning environment for your child.

　　Disciple's Rules" said: can pro Ren unlimited good virtue day into the day less than pro Ren unlimited harm to small people into a hundred things bad. Speaking of the learning environment and its surrounding people have a great impact on children, as the saying goes, close to the Zhu Zhi Chi, close to the ink is black. We need to make friends with people of high moral character, through learning and communication with them, we can take their strengths to make up for their shortcomings, so that our moral character will also be noble, and the child will follow us to be a good influence and become a person of high moral character. The story of Mencius' mother's three moves has become a household name, and we as parents should create a good learning environment and humanistic environment for our children to promote their success. Instead, we should not only know how to play cards, mahjong and gambling all day long, which is extremely bad for our children.

　　Reading is benevolent and wise. The above are some of my thoughts and experiences after reading "Discipleship Rules", it is still very shallow, in the future, I also want to study this book in depth, from which to learn more nutrition, and continue to make progress, so that their own road of life is wider and wider.

弟子规的心得体会 篇2

　　弟子规总序开篇是这样教育我们的：弟子规，圣人训，首孝悌，次谨信。泛爱众，而亲仁。有余力，则学文。我学了“首孝悌”这一段，感悟很深。

　　首孝悌，是告诉我们要孝敬与尊重自己的父母。如果连这都不懂，就不可能尊重朋友、同学等在生活中帮助过你的人。

　　“父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，行勿懒”是告诉我们：父母叫你时，不能慢吞吞；父母让你做事时，你就要立刻动身去做，不可偷懒。到这里，我很内疚，因为我在三年级时（现在也有），妈妈要求每学课后要听写英语。那时的我总是慢吞吞地，很不情愿，或想办法脱身，甚至哭过。可是妈妈紧抓不放，坚持每学课后要我听写英语。正因为这样，在三年级英语期末考试考了100分，才知道妈妈的用心良苦。可是在四年级时依然不怎么情愿听写，分数下降了，可是我还是外甥打灯笼——照旧（舅）。妈妈只好随便我，什么时候自愿就什么时候听写。学了《弟子规》后，觉得自己对不起妈妈……

　　“身有伤，贻亲忧。德有伤，贻亲羞”的意思是：自己的身上有伤时，自己的.亲人会非常担忧；而你的道德有“伤”时，亲人的脸面就都被丢了。我在深圳时，不小心摔破了头，妈妈被吓得脸色苍白。妈妈送我到医院，边哭边送我进手术室……。读了《弟子规》“入则孝”后，联想那时的情景，真正理解“身有伤，贻亲忧”这句话的意思。

　　《弟子规》是中华文化的经典，它正以特殊的魅力感染着每一位炎黄子孙。当古老的钟声再次响起，让我们一起徜徉在这美妙的文化经典里—“弟子规，圣人训，首孝悌，次谨信……”

Discipleship experience Part 2

　　The general preface of the rules of discipleship opens with this education: The rules of discipleship, the training of the sages, the first filial piety and fraternal duty, the second respect and trust. Love all, love all, and be kind to all. If you have any spare capacity, you should study literature. I learned the paragraph of "first filial piety and fraternal duty", and I feel very deeply.

　　The first filial piety and fraternal duty tells us to honor and respect our parents. If you don't even know how to do this, it is impossible to respect your friends, classmates and other people who have helped you in life.

　　"When your parents call you, don't be slow in responding; when your parents order you, don't be lazy in doing" tells us: when your parents call you, don't be slow in responding; when your parents ask you to do something, you have to do it at once, don't be lazy. I feel guilty because when I was in the third grade (and still am), my mom asked me to dictate English after every lesson. I was always slow and reluctant then, or tried to get out of it, and even cried. However, my mom held on to me and insisted that I dictate English after every school lesson. Because of this, I scored 100 points on the English final exam in third grade, and realized my mother's good intentions. But in the fourth grade is still not very willing to dictate, the score dropped, but I still nephews playing lanterns - as usual (uncle). My mom had to let me do whatever I wanted and dictate whenever I wanted to. After learning "Discipleship Rules", I feel sorry for my mom ......

　　"When one's body is wounded, one's relatives are saddened. When your body is wounded, your relatives will be very worried; and when your morals are "wounded", your relatives will be disgraced. When you have a wound in your body, your relatives will be very worried; and when you have a "wound" in your morality, your relatives will be disgraced. When I was in Shenzhen, I accidentally broke my head, and my mom was so scared that she turned pale. My mom sent me to the hospital, crying as she sent me into the operating room ....... After reading the "Disciple's Rules", "Being filial", I thought of the scene at that time, and I really understood the meaning of the saying "If you are hurt, you will be worried about your relatives".

　　Disciple's Rules is a classic of Chinese culture, which is infecting each and every one of the children of the Yellow Emperor with its special charm. When the ancient bell rings again, let us wander together in this wonderful cultural classic - "Disciple's rules, the sage's training, the first filial piety and fraternal duty, the second respect and trust ......".

弟子规的心得体会 篇3

　　高尔基曾说过一句话“书籍是人累进步的阶梯”。我们要多读书，读好书。最近一段时间，我就在读一本《弟子规》的书，里面说的一些话让我明白了许许多多做人的道理。我觉得我有很多方面做的不够好，比如说不尊敬长辈方面、言行举止方面，与同学之间相处有小摩擦等等。

　　读了《弟子规》这本书后，里面让我印象最深的一句话就是： “父母教，须敬听；父母责，须顺承。”这句话的意思就是父母对我们的教导要恭敬地听明白；父母对我们地批评，我们应当顺从的接受。想想我以前对爸爸妈妈做过的事和说过的'话，真是让我感到惭愧啊。

　　就拿一件小事情来说，妈妈平时在家总是对我说出门在外见到熟悉的人要主动向人打招呼，别人问话要有礼貌地回答，可是到了外面我总是做不到，把妈妈的话当成耳边风。做作业的时候我总是粗心大意，磨磨蹭蹭的，妈妈责备我几句，我还不耐烦地跟她顶嘴，有时还会把妈妈给气个半死。读了《弟子规》后我才知道了怎样做才算得上是一个听话的好孩子。

　　《弟子规》这本书真是让我受益匪浅啊！在以后的日子里我会时时刻刻的约束自己，在学校里做老师的好学生，在家里做爸爸妈妈的好孩子。

Discipleship experience Part 3

　　Gorky once said, "Books are the ladder of progress". We should read more books and read well. Recently, I have been reading a book called "Disciple's Rules", and some of the words in it make me understand a lot of truths about being a human being. I think I have a lot of aspects of the work is not good enough, such as do not respect the elders, words and behavior, and students get along with small friction and so on.

　　After reading the book "The Rules of Discipleship", the sentence that impressed me the most was: "When our parents teach us, we must listen respectfully; when our parents criticize us, we must accept them obediently." The meaning of this sentence is that our parents should respectfully listen to and understand our teaching, and we should obediently accept our parents' criticisms of us. Thinking about the things I did and said to my mom and dad in the past, it really makes me feel ashamed.

　　Take a small thing, my mother usually at home always told me to go out to see familiar people to take the initiative to greet people, others ask questions to answer politely, but I always do not do outside, the mother's words as a whisper. When I do my homework, I am always careless and dilly-dallying, and when my mother scolds me a few times, I still talk back to her impatiently, and sometimes I even make my mother half dead. After reading "Disciple's Rules", I realized how to be a good and obedient boy.

　　The book "Disciple's Rules" really benefits me a lot! In the days to come I will always discipline myself to be a good student to my teachers at school and a good child to my parents at home.

弟子规的心得体会 篇4

　　本月青年教师读书的范围是经典名篇，因此我学习了弟子规。

　　在道德精神缺失的现代社会，人们要向经典学习。《弟子规》在当今真是一本既古老、又时尚的读物。它是我们日常生活中的好老师，告诉我们许多道理，带领我们领略人生的真谛，规范我们做人的准则，指明我们做人的方向。

　　《弟子规》这本书，从孝顺父母、尊重长辈、兄弟和睦、做事谨慎、诚信做人、德爱相待等方面都做了深入细致的说明，使我明白了许多道理。《弟子规》教诲人们首先要有孝顺长辈的心，要有一颗友爱的心;只有一个人的品德上进了，才能做好人，而我们学习的根本就是：人的品德修养。

　　《弟子规》实实在在地告诉我们应该如何做人，应该如何仁爱待人，如何正确地处事，如何分寸有度地接物，它会时刻照耀着我们前进的`步伐，丰富我们的思想。让我们沉浸在传统文化知识的海洋，学会做人的道理。

　　《弟子规》的总纲领是“入则孝 出则悌 谨而信 泛爱众 行有余力 则以学文”。只要我们认真学习、认真感悟，就会明白许多道理，为人处世哪些可以做，哪些不可以做，有了做人的准则，在生活工作中就会有正确的判断，及时纠正自己错误的言行。在教书育人这个光荣的事业中，我们要严格要求自己，怀着感恩与恭敬之心来待人接物，谦卑待人，身体力行，勤奋学习，不断提高个人修养和素质。

Disciple's Rules of Discipleship - Part 4

　　This month's reading for young teachers ranged from the classics to the classics, so I studied Discipleship.

　　In the modern society where moral spirit is lacking, people have to learn from the classics. The Book of Discipleship is really an ancient and fashionable reading material in today's world. It is a good teacher in our daily life, telling us many truths, leading us to appreciate the true meaning of life, standardizing our code of conduct, and pointing out the direction of our conduct.

　　The book "Disciple's Rules", from filial piety, respect for elders, brotherhood and harmony, do things carefully, honesty, virtue and love each other, etc. have made in-depth instructions, so that I understand a lot of truth. The Rules of Discipleship teaches that people should first have filial piety and respect for elders, and have a heart of friendship and love; only when a person's moral character is improved can he or she be a good person, and the root of our study is: the cultivation of human moral character.

　　The Rules of Discipleship tells us how to be a human being, how to treat people with love and kindness, how to do things correctly, how to receive things in a measured way, and it will always illuminate our steps forward and enrich our thoughts. Let us immerse ourselves in the sea of traditional cultural knowledge and learn to be human.

　　The general program of the Rules of Discipleship is "To enter is filial piety, to leave is fraternal duty, to be honorable, to be trustworthy, to love all people, and to learn from others if one has the ability to do so". As long as we study and feel carefully, we will understand a lot of truths about what we can and cannot do in the world, and with a code of conduct, we will have the right judgment in life and work, and correct our wrong words and deeds in time. In the glorious cause of teaching and educating people, we should strictly demand ourselves, treat people with gratitude and respect, treat people with humility, practice what we preach, study diligently, and constantly improve our personal cultivation and quality.

弟子规的心得体会 篇5

　　进入小学的校门第一次学习弟子规，使我渐渐感悟了《弟子规》的意思。我这才发现，原来做人也有许多规则，因此，想做一个受人敬重的人就得有规有矩，有礼貌，尊老爱幼，守信用。我就说一说我读后的感受吧!

　　首先是〈入则孝〉，这里主要是教育我们要孝顺父母、亲人。他们所说的，所做的都是为了我们好，所以无论如何，我们都应当听从他们的教诲。还有就是，不管他们爱不爱我们，我们都要用自己的真心去爱他们。因为，毕竟是他们生下了我们，养大了我们，我们总不能忘记养育之恩吧?更何况弟子规里面也有写到

　　“亲爱我，孝何难，亲憎我，孝方贤。”它的`意思是：不管父母、亲人爱不爱你，你都要尽你做人的孝道，尊敬父母、亲人。

　　其次是〈出则弟〉，它是教我们怎么和别人相处的。比如“兄道友，弟道恭，兄弟睦，孝在中。”意思是：兄弟朋友要互相尊敬，要和睦，如果不和睦，父母就要为你们操心，和睦,就少了父母亲的一份担忧，就等于是孝敬父母了。所以，我们一定要和兄弟姐妹们和谐相处，这样我们的父母看了才会从心里面为我们感到高兴，我们也会因此更快乐的。

　　〈谨〉，我们生活中做什么事，时时刻刻都要谨慎。俗话说：无规矩，不成方圆。穿衣服要系钮扣，要整洁，还要符合自己的身份;喝酒要适量，不要喝醉了，否则容易被别人“说闲话”。尤其是不应该在背后谈论人家的长短，这样是不好的，也是不道德的。

　　人不要自私，要大方，不计较小事，这样人也会变得很快乐。

　　仁，代表仁慈、亲仁。对外人仁慈，对亲人仁慈，对朋友仁慈，对同事仁慈…… 现在什么人都有，但有几个是做到“仁”的?俗话说的好，人无完人吗!只要我们尽量做好自己应做的，至于别人怎么说，那就是他们的事情了!

　　我已经知道做人、做事的道理了，可光知道还不行，还要学会做。怎么才能做呢?学知识。怎么学呢?学习可分为直接学习和间接学习，我们可学别人的，别人的也不一定全对，我们要“取其精华，去其糟粕”，该学的学，不该学就不学。我觉得《弟子规》对我们的一生都会有帮助，我会时时刻刻用这本书来鞭策自己的。

Disciple's rules of experience Part 5

　　Entering the gates of elementary school for the first time to learn the Disciple's Rules made me gradually realize the meaning of the Disciple's Rules. I realized that there are many rules for being a human being, therefore, if you want to be a respected person you have to have rules and regulations, be polite, respect the old and love the young, and keep your word. Let me tell you how I feel after reading it!

　　The first one is 〈入則孝〉, and here we are mainly taught to be filial to our parents and relatives. What they say and do is for our good, so no matter what, we should listen to their teachings. And that is, whether they love us or not, we should love them with all our heart. Because, after all, they are the ones who gave birth to us and raised us, and we can't forget the kindness of our upbringing, can we? What's more, it is also written in the discipleship rules that

　　"If you love me, filial piety is not difficult; if your relatives hate me, filial piety is only virtuous." It`s meaning is: whether your parents and relatives love you or not, you have to do your filial duty as a human being and honor your parents and relatives.

　　The second is 〈出则弟〉, which teaches us how to get along with others. For example, "Brotherhood is the way of friendship, brotherhood is the way of respect, brotherhood is the way of harmony, and filial piety is in the center." Meaning: Brothers and friends should respect each other and be in harmony. If you are not in harmony, your parents will have to worry about you; if you are in harmony, you will worry less about your parents, and you will be honoring your parents. Therefore, we must live in harmony with our brothers and sisters, so that our parents will see from the heart for us to feel happy, we will also be happier.

　　(〈谨〉, we should be cautious in what we do in life at all times. As the saying goes: no rules, no square. Wear clothes to fasten buttons, to be neat, but also in line with their own identity; drink in moderation, do not get drunk, or easy to be others "gossip". Especially should not talk about people's length behind their backs, this is not good, is also unethical.

　　People should not be selfish, they should be generous and not sweat the small stuff, so that people will become happy too.

　　Jen stands for benevolence, pro-benevolence. The outsiders are kind, the relatives are kind, the friends are kind, the colleagues are kind ...... Nowadays, there are all sorts of people, but how many of them are to do the "benevolence"? As the saying goes, no one is perfect! As long as we try to do their own should do, as for what others say, that is their business!

　　I already know the truth about being and doing, but it's not enough to know, I have to learn to do. How can I do it? Learn knowledge. How to learn? Learning can be divided into direct learning and indirect learning, we can learn from others, others may not be all right, we have to "take the best, remove the dross", the learning to learn, should not learn not to learn. I think the "Discipleship Rules" will help us throughout our lives, I will always use this book to spur myself on.

弟子规的心得体会 篇6

　　经过了一个学期的学习生活，我们迎来了升入中学的第一个长假——寒假。

　　为了不浪费寒假的时间，我想在寒假里学习不一样的知识，便在姥爷的推荐下找来了《弟子规》来阅读。阅读才知道，这本书果然是“名不虚传”，不禁可以陶冶情操，更是教了我们后人做人的道理，我想，要真能读透这本书，肯定是受益匪浅啊！

　　《弟子规》中一再强调“孝是信根，信是命根”，虽然只有八个字，但却蕴含了决定人一生的大道理。就比如《入则孝》这一篇中的“父母呼应勿缓父母命行勿懒”所说，父母就好比树根，我们好比树枝。长出什么样的树枝，不是有树枝决定，而是由树根决定。我们是树，父母是根，根树相连，树由根生。父母叫我们，不能慢悠悠的。不孝顺，不仅伤父母的`心，到最后，最受伤害的还是自己，我们想：没有父母爱的孩子，肯定不能茁壮成长。

　　俗话说“百善孝为先”遇事能先想到父母，从一件小事中使父母开心，久而久之，这一件件小事情积累起来，这便是孝了吧！

　　《弟子规》教给了我做人的基本原则和礼仪，使我懂得了怎样爱别人、尊敬别人，使我成为了一个懂礼貌的人！

Disciple's rules of experience Part 6

　　After a semester of school life, we have our first long break to middle school - winter break.

　　In order not to waste the time of the winter vacation, I want to learn different knowledge in the winter vacation, it is recommended in the grandpa to find the "Discipleship Rules" to read. Read to know, this book is really "the name of the game", not only can cultivate sentiment, but also taught us the reasoning of the future generations, I think, to really read through the book, it must be a great benefit ah!

　　In the Rules of Discipleship, it is emphasized again and again that "filial piety is the root of faith, and faith is the root of life". Although there are only eight words in it, it contains a great principle that determines a person's life. For example, in the article "Entering filial piety", "Do not be slow in responding to your parents' calls and do not be lazy in carrying out your parents' orders", it is said that our parents are like the root of a tree, and we are like the branches of the tree. What kind of branch grows is not determined by the branch, but by the root. We are the tree, our parents are the root, the root is connected to the tree, and the tree is born from the root. When our parents call us, we cannot be slow. If you are not filial, you will not only hurt your parents, but in the end, the one who suffers the most is yourself, and we think: a child without parental love will certainly not thrive.

　　As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first of all good deeds", you can think of your parents first when things go wrong, and make your parents happy from a small thing, and over time, this is filial piety when this small thing accumulates, right?

　　The Disciple's Rules taught me the basic principles of human behavior and etiquette, so that I know how to love and respect others, making me a polite person!

弟子规的心得体会 篇7

　　《弟子规》是一本教人怎样做人、学习、孝敬父母、尊老爱幼的书。近学期，我校掀起了学习诵读《弟子规》的热潮，关于《弟子规》的各种活动也广泛开来。

　　我在开始时觉得学习《弟子规》枯燥无味，我想：难道我们还学习古代人跪来跪去吗？但是，经过后来老师的讲解和同学的热情，我被感染了，也加入了学习诵读《弟子规》的行列中。在《弟子规》中，我最为喜爱的是“信”这一内容，讲述了作为一个人应该怎样诚实守信。“凡出言，信为先，诈与妄，奚可焉。”意思是：凡是说出去的话，诚信为先；欺诈别人或胡言乱语，那怎么可以呢？诚信是一种美德，只有拥有想、诚信的人，才能拥有幸福的生活。

　　还有一句是“闻过怒，闻誉乐，损友来，益友却。闻誉恐，闻过欣，直谅士，渐相亲。”意思是如果一个人听到别人说自己的'缺失就生气，听到别人称赞自己就欢喜，那么不好的朋友就会接近你，而真正的良朋益友逐渐疏远退却了。相反，那些正直诚实的有德之士，就会逐渐成为好朋友与你亲近起来。

　　北宋词人晏殊，素以诚实着称。在他十四岁时，有人把他作为神童举荐给皇帝。皇帝召见了他，并要他与一千多名进士同时参加考试。结果晏殊发现考试是自己十天前刚练习过的，就如实向真宗报告，并请求改换其他题目。宋真宗非常赞赏晏殊的诚实品质，便赐给他“同进士出身”。晏殊当职时，正值天下太平。于是，京城的大小官员便经常到郊外游玩或在城内的酒楼茶馆举行各种宴会。

　　晏殊家贫，无钱出去吃喝玩乐，只好在家里和兄弟们读写文章。有一天，真宗提升晏殊为辅佐太子读书的东宫官。大臣们惊讶异常，不明白真宗为何做出这样的决定。真宗说：“近来群臣经常游玩饮宴，只有晏殊闭门读书，如此自重谨慎，正是东宫官合适的人选。”晏殊谢恩后说：“我其实也是个喜欢游玩饮宴的人，只是家贫而已。若我有钱，也早就参与宴游了。”这两件事，使晏殊在群臣面前树立起了信誉，而宋真宗也更加信任他了。

　　同学们，晏殊的这则故事不就是大家应当学习的典范吗？我们缺失的不也就是这种精神吗？

　　同学们，诚信是金，它是一艘能够驶向希望与快乐的航船，它是一个能扇动我们伟大理想的风筝与翅膀，我们为什么不能好好的珍惜它呢？同学，不要犹豫，拿起《弟子规》，跟着我一起去享受诚实守信带给我们的宝藏吧！

Disciple's rules of experience Part 7

　　Disciple's Rules is a book that teaches people how to behave, learn, honor their parents, and respect the old and love the young. In recent semesters, our school has set off a fervor to learn and recite the "Rules of Discipleship", and various activities about the "Rules of Discipleship" have been widely carried out.

　　At the beginning, I found the study of the Rules of Discipleship boring, and I thought: are we still learning the ancient people to kneel around? However, after the teacher's explanation and the enthusiasm of my classmates, I was infected and joined in the study of "Disciple's Rules". My favorite part of "Disciple's Rules" is the content of "Faith", which tells how a person should be honest and trustworthy. "Whenever you speak, faith is the first thing you should do, but fraud and delusion are not." Meaning: Where words are spoken, honesty comes first; how can that be when one defrauds others or speaks nonsense? Honesty is a virtue; only those who have want and honesty can have a happy life.

　　There is also a line that reads, "When you hear of anger, you will be happy to hear of honor; when you hear of bad friends, you will be happy to hear of good friends. If one is fearful when he hears praise, he will be happy when he hears praise, and if he is understanding, he will gradually become close to one another." The meaning is that if a person gets angry when he hears others talking about his own shortcomings, and rejoices when he hears others praising him, then bad friends will come close to you, and the truly good friends will gradually withdraw from you. On the contrary, those virtuous people who are upright and honest will gradually become good friends and get close to you.

　　Yan Shu, a lyricist of the Northern Song Dynasty, was known for his honesty. When he was fourteen years old, someone recommended him to the emperor as a prodigy. The emperor summoned him and asked him to take the exam at the same time as more than a thousand jinshi. As a result, Yanshu realized that the exam was one he had just practiced ten days before, so he truthfully reported it to Emperor Zhenzong and requested to change other topics. Song Zhenzong appreciated Yan Shu's honesty so much that he gave him the title of "scholar of the same grade". When Yan Shu was in office, the world was at peace. As a result, the officials of the capital often went out to the countryside or held banquets in the city's restaurants and teahouses.

　　Yanshu's family was poor and had no money to go out to eat and drink, so he had to read and write with his brothers at home. One day, Emperor Zhenzong promoted Yan Shu to be an official of the Eastern Palace to assist the Crown Prince in his studies. The ministers were surprised and did not understand why the Emperor made such a decision. The Emperor said, "Recently, the ministers have been playing and drinking a lot, but only Yan Shu has been studying behind closed doors, and he is so self-respecting and prudent, so he is the right person to be an official of the East Palace." Yanshu thanked him and said, "I am actually a person who likes to play and drink, but my family is poor. If I had money, I would have participated in banquets long ago." These two events helped Yan Shu establish his credibility in front of the ministers, and Song Zhenzong trusted him more.

　　Students, isn't the story of Yan Shu a model that we should learn from? Isn't this the spirit we are missing?

　　Students, honesty is gold, it is a ship that can sail to hope and happiness, it is a kite and wings that can fan our great ideals, why can't we treasure it? Students, don't hesitate to pick up the Discipleship Rules and follow me to enjoy the treasures that honesty and trustworthiness bring us!

弟子规的心得体会 篇8

　　本学期开学初，县教育局要求全县师生共同学习《弟子规》，我在指导同学们朗读、背诵的过程中，自己也努力学习，感到收获很大，体会到教育局开展这次学习活动意义重大，尤其是在这样一个呼唤道德的时代，更显得难能可贵。反复诵读那质朴的古训，不禁使人心胸豁然开朗，在潜移默化中，似乎拉近了自己与圣贤的距离。

　　《弟子规》这本书，它从孝顺父母、尊重长辈、兄弟和睦、做事谨慎、诚信做人、德爱相待等方面都做了深入细致的说明，使我明白了许多道理。《弟子规》教诲人们首先要有孝顺长辈的心，要有一颗友爱的心;只有一个人的品德上进了，才能做好人，而我们学习的根本就是：人的品德修养。

　　学习《弟子规》使我最难忘的句子是“凡是人，皆友爱。天地覆，地同载”。它传递了孔子的“泛爱众”，朗朗上口，给人一种温暖的感觉，蓝天之下，大地之上，对所有的人都应该爱，所有的人也都需要爱。在表达上“凡是人，皆友爱。天地覆，地同载”比“四海之内皆兄弟”还有气度，令人感到胸襟博大，时至今日它仍然有现实意义。作家冰心曾说：“有了爱就有一切。”

　　爱是人类最伟大的情感，是所有高尚品质和美好道德的核心。人只有懂得爱，懂得感激，懂得体贴，懂得感恩，懂得宽容，懂得谦让，世界上才不会有空虚和孤独。爱在哪里?爱在一个淡淡的微笑里;爱在一个已经被家人传递了许多次的苹果里;爱在一床暖暖的被子里、、、爱是生活的主旋律。都说父母的爱比山高，似海深。在亲情的世界里，雨滴会变成咖啡，种子会开出玫瑰，清泉会酿成美酒，眼泪会闪出微笑。

　　《弟子规》实实在在地告诉我们如何做人，如何仁爱待人，如何正确处事，如何分寸有度的接物，它会时刻照耀着我们前进的'步伐，丰富我们的思想。让我们冲向传统文化知识的海洋，学会做人的道理。

　　“入则孝、出则悌、谨而信、泛爱众、行有余力，则以学文”是《弟子规》的总纲领。只要我们认真地去学习、去感悟，就会明白许多的道理，为人处世哪些可以做，哪些不可以做，有了做人的准则，在生活工作中就会有正确的判断，及时纠正自己错误的言行。

　　通过学习《弟子规》，我深深地认识到自己做的远远不够，尤其是在孝敬父母方面还要好好努力。去年我的爸爸患直肠癌，需要我的帮助和照顾，我却借口工作忙，单位不准假。现在回想起来，真是不应该。父母对我那么好，我有什么理由让他们在需要我的时候使他们失望呢?

　　我也生过病，他们是那样的细心照料，无微不至，而我呢?既缺乏细心，又缺乏耐心。学习《弟子规》，我想不仅是一个提高个人修养的过程，更是一个思想升华的过程。对一个人的成长来说，是十分必要的爱周围的人，爱这个世界。只有这样，这个社会才变成和谐的社会，这个世界才变成和谐的世界。

　　《弟子规》是一本集中国传统文化的精华，以学规、学则的形式，三言成语的体例，浓缩了八德(孝、悌、忠、信、礼、义、廉、耻)知识的教育范本。其通俗易懂“便于诵读讲解而皆切于实际”，不论从工作到生活，还是从做事到做人，廖廖1080个字，就把人类社会所提倡的、反对的，遵道的、违德的讲得明明白白清清楚楚，内涵丰富。《弟子规》本身就是“道”是“德”。

　　所以要牢记《弟子规》，并用它来要求自己、检查自己、反省自己，做到敦伦尽分。大量的事实证明，能按《弟子规》的要求来规范自己言行的人，绝对在家庭中是一个好儿女、好夫妇、好父母、好兄弟姐妹，在单位是一个好员工、好同事、好朋友、好领导，在社会上是一个德高望重的圣贤之人。

　　《弟子规》本身就是一种规范，一种道德品质的规范;同时也是一个让大家去身体力行、自我管理的行为规范。它不是拿来要求他人的，而是通过自己的践行来引导、带动身边的人一起学习，一同力行，逐步提升自己的素质，提高家庭生活质量，改善工作、生活环境以及社会风气，从而达到构建和谐家园、和谐社会的目的。

　　我学习《弟子规》深刻领悟到以下四点：

　　1、做人要懂得感恩;

　　2、待人接物要怀着恭敬之心;

　　3、为人要谦虚;

　　4、要找准人生目标。《弟子规》教人向善，培养增长人的德行，目的是让人活得有意义，并从《弟子规》学到做人的智慧。

　　让我们一起来聆听圣贤的教诲吧，从尽人伦之本分做起，做一个好儿女，一个好丈夫，一个好妻子，一个好父亲，一个好母亲，一个好员工，一个大家心目中的好朋友。只有这样，我们才能承担更多的社会责任，为社会的和谐与安宁贡献自己的力量。我愿与大家共勉，在教书育人这个事业中，严格要求自己，怀着感恩与恭敬之心来待人接物，谦卑待人，身体力行，勤奋学习，不断提高个人修养和素质，为教育的发展做出自己的贡献。

　　素质教育即全（学校119消防宣传月活动工作方案及预案）面发展素质，因此，我们家长以往所提倡的发展德智体美劳就可以发展素质教育的核心与途径。我们居住比较落后的县城，周边环境相对较乱，居住人群较复杂，文化水平较低，平时为生计忙碌，根本无暇顾及孩子，因此，学校将德育教育放在首位。中国传统文化《弟子规》，它是一本教导学生如何做人的一些基础规范。

　　在古时候，古人非常重视儿童教育。为什么他们这么重视？因为小孩一生出来，他没有受到社会的污染，他很纯洁。在这个时候就要好好的教育他，你教他善，他就是善；你教他恶，他就变成恶。你教他读书，他就会琅琅上口；你教他跟兄弟姐妹友爱，他就会友爱。你讲故事给他听，他能牢牢记住。所以如果小孩错过学习得这个时段，就非常的可惜。

　　在学校老师的带领下，《弟子规》作为学校的校本课程，德育教育重在点滴渗透，同时，又为了不耽误原有的教学进度，又进行了德育教育。听到的是孩子吟诵《弟子规》的琅琅的读书声。《弟子规》中的内容是来要求自己的言行。处处为孩子做表率。“凡是人，皆须爱”只要充满爱那个孩子不可爱。所以作为家长教育孩子要有耐心，爱心和细心，对待孩子要少讽刺和轻视，多一份尊重和宽容，少说伤害孩子的话，多说关怀的话，少用命令和批评的话，多用商量和鼓励的话。

　　中国传统文化“贵在力行”《弟子规》不是背出来的，是做出来的，我们要在日常生活的小事中落实《弟子规》想要教好《弟子规》就要善于抓住机会教育，尤其是在孩子犯错时更是机会的教育点。比如见到孩子读书时心神恍惚，到处张望时，我会提醒孩子“读书法，有三到，心眼口，信皆要”；当孩子讲粗口时，我也会教育他们“奸巧语，秽污词，市井气，切戒之”；当孩子有了不良行为习惯，如坐姿站姿和走姿不文雅时，我也会教他要有礼节，做到“步从容，立端正”《弟子规》贵在“学以致用”，我们不要照搬，要活学活用，唯我所用。

　　《弟子规》教学已开展一学期了，作为我们家长，我们不是在教授《弟子规》，而是和孩子一起学习《弟子规》。这是一个从感性到理性的过程，也是一个不断提高自我修养和思想升华的过程。在这个过程中，我充分感受了中国传统文化的魅力，我将和我的孩子不断提高思想修养和道德修养。

Discipleship experience Part 8

　　At the beginning of this semester, the county education bureau asked the county teachers and students to study the "Discipleship Rules", I guided the students to read aloud, recite the process, I also strive to learn, I feel very rewarding, and realize that the education bureau to carry out this learning activity is of great significance, especially in such a call for morality in this era, it seems to be more valuable. Repeatedly reciting the simple ancient teachings, can not help but make people's minds open up, in the subtle, seems to be closer to the distance between themselves and the sages.

　　The book "Disciple's Rules", it from filial piety, respect for elders, brotherhood and harmony, do things cautiously, honesty and integrity, virtue and love each other and so on have done in-depth instructions, so that I understand a lot of truth. The Rules of the Disciples" teaches that people should first have filial piety and respect for elders, and have a heart of friendship and love; only when a person's moral character has improved, can he be a good person, and the fundamental thing we learn is: the cultivation of a person's moral character.

　　The most unforgettable sentence I learned from the Book of Discipleship is "All people love one another. Heaven and earth are covered, and the earth is loaded with them." It conveys Confucius' "love for all". It conveys Confucius' "love for all", is catchy, and gives people a warm feeling that under the blue sky and on top of the earth, all people should be loved, and all people need to be loved. In terms of expression, "All people are friendly and loving. Heaven and earth, the same load" than "all brothers in the four seas" and the temperament, people feel broad-minded, it still has practical significance today. The writer Bing Xin once said, "With love, there is everything."

　　Love is the greatest human emotion and the core of all noble qualities and good morals. Only if people know how to love, appreciate, be considerate, be grateful, be tolerant and be humble, there will be no emptiness and loneliness in the world. Where is love? Love in a faint smile; love in an apple that has been passed many times by the family; love in a warm quilt,, love is the main theme of life. It is said that the love of parents is higher than the mountain, like the depth of the sea. In the world of affection, raindrops will turn into coffee, seeds will blossom into roses, clear springs will be brewed into wine, and tears will flash out smiles.

　　Disciple's Rules tells us how to be a human being, how to treat people with love and kindness, how to deal with things correctly, how to receive things in a measured way, it will always illuminate our steps forward and enrich our thoughts. Let us rush to the sea of traditional cultural knowledge, learn to be a man of truth.

　　"To enter is filial piety, to leave is brotherly love, to be prudent and trustworthy, to love all people, and to learn the language when one is able to do so" is the general program of the "Rules of the Disciple". As long as we carefully study and feel, we will understand many truths, which can be done in the world, which can not be done, with a code of conduct, in life and work will have the right judgment, timely correction of their own wrong words and deeds.

　　Through the study of "Disciple's Rules", I deeply realize that what I have done is far from enough, especially in filial piety and respect for parents, I still have to work hard. Last year my father suffered from rectal cancer and needed my help and care, but I excused myself as busy at work and was not allowed to take leave from my workplace. In retrospect, I really shouldn't have. My parents are so good to me, what reason do I have to let them down when they need me?

　　I've been sick too, and they were so attentive and attentive, and I? I lack both care and patience. Learning the "Discipleship Rules", I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of thought. For a person's growth, it is very necessary to love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way will this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world.

　　Disciple's Rules is a collection of the essence of traditional Chinese culture, in the form of learning rules, learning rules, three idiomatic style, condensed knowledge of the eight virtues (filial piety, fraternal duty, loyalty, faith, propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame) of the educational model. Its easy to understand "easy to read and explain and all cut in the actual", whether from work to life, or from doing to do, Liao Liao 1,080 words, the human society to promote, against, follow the road, against the virtue of speaking clearly and clearly, rich in connotation. The Rules of Discipleship itself is the "Way" and the "Virtue".

　　Therefore, we should memorize the Rules of Discipleship and use them to demand, check and reflect on ourselves, so as to fulfill our duties. A large number of facts have proved that those who can standardize their words and deeds according to the requirements of the Rules of Discipline are definitely good children, good couples, good parents, good siblings in the family, good employees, good colleagues, good friends, good leaders in the unit, and highly respected sages in the society.

　　The Disciple's Rules is itself a kind of norm, a norm of moral character; at the same time, it is also a behavioral norm for everyone to practice and self-management. It is not to be used to require others, but through their own practice to guide and drive the people around them to learn together, together with the force, and gradually improve their own quality, improve the quality of family life, improve the work, living environment and social atmosphere, so as to achieve the purpose of building a harmonious home, harmonious society.

　　I studied the Discipleship Rules and realized the following four points deeply:

　　1. To be a man, we must be thankful; and

　　2. Treat people with respect; and

　　3. To be humble; and

　　4. To find the goal of life. The Discipline of the Disciples teaches goodness and fosters the growth of human virtues, with the aim of enabling one to live a meaningful life and to learn from the Discipline of the Disciples the wisdom of being a human being.

　　Let us listen to the teachings of the sages and start by doing our part in human affairs, being a good son or daughter, a good husband, a good wife, a good father, a good mother, a good employee, and a good friend in everyone's heart. Only in this way can we take on more social responsibility and contribute to the harmony and tranquility of society. I would like to share the same encouragement with all of you, in the cause of teaching and educating people, to be strict with myself, to treat people with gratitude and respect, to treat people with humility, to be physically active, to study diligently, to continuously improve my personal cultivation and quality, and to make my own contribution to the development of education.

　　Quality education that is the whole (school 119 fire prevention and publicity month activities work program and plan) the development of the quality of the surface, therefore, we parents used to advocate the development of moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and labor can be the development of the core of quality education and the way. We live in a relatively backward county, the surrounding environment is relatively chaotic, the population is more complex, the cultural level is low, usually busy for the livelihood, there is no time to take care of the children, therefore, the school will be moral education in the first place. The traditional Chinese culture, "Disciple's Rules", is a book that teaches students some basic norms of how to behave.

　　In ancient times, the ancients attached great importance to children's education. Why did they attach such importance to it? Because when a child is born, he is not polluted by society, he is very pure. At this time, we should educate him well. If you teach him to be good, he will be good; if you teach him to be evil, he will become evil. If you teach him to read, he will be catchy; if you teach him to be friendly with his brothers and sisters, he will be friendly. If you tell him stories, he will memorize them. So if a child misses this time of learning, it is a great pity.

　　Under the leadership of the school teachers, "The Rules of Discipleship" as the school-based curriculum of the school, moral education focuses on the drip-drip penetration, and at the same time, in order not to delay the original teaching progress, and then moral education. What is heard is the catchy reading sound of children chanting "Disciple's Rules". The content of "Disciple's Rules" is to require their own words and deeds. Be a role model for your children everywhere. "All people must be loved," as long as full of love that child is not cute. So as parents to educate children to have patience, love and care, treat children with less sarcasm and contempt, more respect and tolerance, less words to hurt the child, more words of care, less use of orders and criticism, more use of discussion and encouragement words.

　　Chinese traditional culture, "the value of force" "Discipleship Rules" is not memorized, it is done, we have to implement the "Discipleship Rules" in our daily lives in the small things want to teach "Discipleship Rules" should be good at seizing the opportunity to educate, especially when the child makes a mistake is the opportunity to educate the point. For example, when I see my children reading in a trance and looking around, I will remind them that "there are three ways to read, the eyes, the eyes, the mouth, and the letter"; when my children speak foul language, I will educate them that "treacherous language, filthy words, and marketplace atmosphere, cut out"; when my children have bad behavioral habits, such as sitting, standing, or sitting with their feet up. When the child has bad behavior habits, such as sitting, standing and walking posture is not elegant, I will also teach him to have manners, to do "step calmly, upright" "Disciple's Rules" is "learning to use", we do not copy, but to live and learn, only I use.

　　The teaching of "Discipleship Rules" has been carried out for one semester. As we parents, we are not teaching "Discipleship Rules", but learning "Discipleship Rules" together with our children. It is a process from sensibility to rationality, and also a process of continuous improvement of self-cultivation and sublimation of thoughts. In this process, I fully feel the charm of traditional Chinese culture, and I will continue to improve my intellectual and moral cultivation with my children.

弟子规的心得体会 篇9

　　《弟子规》是我们中华民族弘扬的传统美德。它也是我国文化思想的一部著作。它记载着中华民族做人的道理以及文明礼仪方面的相关事项。

　　《弟子规》中有很多方面是值得我们学习的。例如，父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，行勿懒。父母教，须敬听；父母责，须顺承。这里主要讲的是做子女的应该孝敬父母，尊敬父母。若不能对自己有养育之恩的父母做到“孝”，那就是忘本，所以，孝敬父母是我们首先要做好的。

　　有人说：“诚信是道德之本。”对于我们中学生来说，“信”则是人生的信条。人如果失去了信任，那么他活在世间也就没什么意义了。正如《弟子规》中所说到：“凡出言，信为先。诈与妄，奚可焉。”所以，生活在这个世界上，要想得到别人的尊重，首先就要自己先做好诚信。

　　在《弟子规》中，有一句让我感触很深，那就是，“兄道友，弟道恭。兄弟睦，孝在中”意思是说，家里的兄弟姐妹生活在一起，要和睦相处。这样就能让父母少操一份心。而在我儿时不懂事的时候，我经常和我哥哥闹矛盾。我哥是男孩子，又比我大，我当然闹不过他。于是，我只好向妈妈告状，说哥哥怎么、怎么欺负我。妈妈见我年小，自然是护着我。现在学习了《弟子规》后，再想想那些事，觉得很不应该，也给家里增添了不少的`麻烦和矛盾。

　　其实，只要仔细阅读，就会体会到，《弟子规》确实对我们又很大的帮助，值得我们去学习和反思。我们既然作为中华民族的一份子，自然应该将我们民族的传统美德很好的传承下去。让我们用行动来证明自己吧！

Discipleship experience Part 9

　　The Book of Discipleship is a traditional virtue promoted by our Chinese nation. It is also a work of our cultural thought. It records the Chinese people's reasoning for being human and matters related to civilization and etiquette.

　　There are many aspects of the Rules of Discipleship that are worth learning. For example, when your parents call, you must not be slow to respond; when your parents order, you must not be lazy. If your parents teach you, you must listen respectfully; if your parents blame you, you must obey. The main point here is that children should be filial to their parents and respect them. If you can't do "filial piety" to your parents who have nurtured you, you are forgetting your roots, so filial piety and respect for your parents is the first thing we should do.

　　It has been said that "Honesty is the essence of morality." For us middle school students, "faith" is the creed of life. If a man loses his trust, there is no point in living on earth. As it is said in the Disciples' Rules, "Whenever you speak, trust is the first thing you should do. Fraud and delusion are not allowed." Therefore, living in this world, in order to be respected by others, you must first be good at integrity yourself first.

　　There is one sentence in the Rules of Discipleship that touches me deeply, that is, "Brotherhood is the way of friendship, brotherhood is the way of respect. Brothers and sisters in the family should live together and get along with each other. This will make parents worry less. When I was a child, I was often at odds with my brother. My brother was a boy and older than me, so of course I couldn't beat him. So I had to complain to my mom about how my brother bullied me. Seeing that I was young, my mother naturally protected me. Now that I have studied the Disciple's Rules, I think about those things again, and I feel that I should not have done that, and I have added a lot of trouble and conflicts to my family.

　　In fact, as long as we read it carefully, we will realize that the Rules of Discipleship is indeed of great help to us, and it is worthwhile for us to study and reflect on it. Since we are part of the Chinese nation, we should naturally pass on the traditional virtues of our nation well. Let's prove ourselves with actions!

弟子规的心得体会 篇10

　　第一次读《弟子规》时，觉得它很伟大，很深奥。慢慢地，随着时间推移，我又感悟出一些道理。今天，我又翻开了那本铺满灰尘的《弟子规》，细细品读，慢慢回味。

　　“父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，行勿懒。”这句话是古人告诫我们，不论平时什么情况，父母呼喊我们，得马上回应，不得拖沓。父母有事情让我们做，应马上去做，不能偷懒或推辞。

　　看完这句话，我立刻想到另外一句俗语：百善孝为先。是呀，我们孝尽父母是天经地义的事，何况只是一件简单的小事呢？所以，我们应该把孝时刻记牢，做到。

　　“或饮食，或坐走，长者先，幼者后。”这句话是古人教育我们，不管是用餐，还是就座、行走时，先让长辈走在前面享用，再轮到晚辈来享用。

　　读过这句话，我想，我们现在美好的生活是由长辈创造的`，长辈是过了千辛万苦才让我们有这么好的生活，难道，我们连座位都不给那些给我们美好世界的长辈们坐吗？

　　“对饮食，勿拣择，食适可，勿过则。”这句古人告诉我们，在饮食方面，不要挑三拣四，能吃饱就行。而且不能吃得太多，要适量。

　　念了这句话，我的脑中立刻浮现出爸爸跟我说他小时候的食物：玉米稀、白面馒头……爸爸小时候吃了一次玉米稀都算“山珍海味”，肉更不用说，一年难得吃一次。而现在，人们的伙食要求高了，忘记了原来的艰苦，大吃大喝，暴饮暴食，真该改改！

　　终于，我把《弟子规》读完了。轻轻合上书本，仰望着窗外的点点繁星，在心里默默立志：“我要把《弟子规》中的每一点都做好！让《弟子规》伴我健康成长！”

Disciple's rules of experience Article 10

　　The first time I read the Discipleship Rules, I thought it was great and profound. Slowly, with the passage of time, I came to realize some more truths. Today, I opened the dusty book of "Discipleship Rules" again, read it carefully, and slowly savored it.

　　"When your parents call, do not be slow to respond; when your parents order, do not be lazy." This saying is an ancient admonition to us that no matter what the situation is in normal times, when our parents call out to us, we must respond immediately and not procrastinate. When our parents ask us to do something, we should do it at once and not be lazy or excuse ourselves.

　　After reading this sentence, I immediately thought of another proverb: filial piety is the first of all good deeds. Yes, it is only right and proper for us to be filial to our parents, not to mention just a simple little thing. Therefore, we should always keep filial piety in mind and do it.

　　"Whether eating or drinking, or sitting or walking, the elders go first, and the younger ones follow." This is a saying that the ancients taught us that whether we are dining, or seated, or walking, let the elders go first and enjoy their meal before the younger ones take their turn.

　　After reading this sentence, I thought, our present beautiful life is created by our elders`, elders have gone through a lot of hard work to let us have such a good life, do we not even give a seat to those elders who gave us a better world?

　　"With regard to food and drink, do not pick and choose; eat what is appropriate and do not overdo it." This ancient saying tells us that when it comes to diet, don't pick and choose, just be able to eat enough. And you can't eat too much, but in moderation.

　　Read this sentence, my mind immediately came to my father told me that he was a child food: corn thin, white bread ...... father ate once when he was a child corn thin are considered "delicacies", meat, not to mention, it is rare to eat once a year. Now, people's food requirements are high, forget the original hardship, eating and drinking, overeating, really should change!

　　Finally, I finished reading The Rules of Discipleship. Gently closed the book, looked up at the stars outside the window, and silently set a will in my heart, "I want to do every bit of the Disciple's Rules well! Let 'Disciple's Rules' accompany me to grow up healthily!"

弟子规的心得体会 篇11

　　上学期末，学校组织学习，背诵《弟子规》。本学期又推出践行《弟子规》活动。通过学习和背诵《弟子规》使我受益匪浅。让我们懂得了很多，我们应该怎么做人。“弟子规、圣人训、首孝弟、次谨信、泛爱众、而亲仁、有余力、则学文”使我们的人生观、价值观都有了很大的启发。

　　“入则孝、出则悌、谨而信、泛爱众、行有余力，则以学文”是《弟子规》的总纲领。我通过认真地学习、感悟，明白许多的道理，为人处世哪些可以做，哪些不可以做。

　　《弟子规？谨》，主要是学会养成良好的日常行为习惯，在日常点滴中培养细心、耐心，从而养成良好的自律习惯，未来成为一个有道德、有教养的人。这部分的内容也适用于我们学校，提醒每一位教师要注意各种日常行为细节，自觉遵守学校各项制度和教师日常行为规范，做一个个人基本素质较高的有教养的教师。

　　学习《弟子规》，我想不仅是一个提高个人修养的过程，更是一个思想升华的过程。对一个人的成长来说，是十分必要的。爱周围的人，爱这个世界。只有这样，这个社会才变成和谐的社会，这个世界才变成和谐的世界。通过对《弟子规》的学习我有两点体会：

　　第一做人要懂得感恩。对一个人而言，应该报答的最大恩情是父母的'养育之恩，所以《弟子规》第一章就是《入则孝》感恩之心体现在一个“孝”字上，“父母呼应勿缓父母命行勿懒”“父母教须敬听父母责须顺承”，想一想这些都是我们做儿女的孝顺父母的基本要求，但我却有很多没有做到。通过这次学习，希望自己在今后的学习和生活中加倍努力，希望能给操劳的父母幸福的生活。

　　第二要谨而信、泛爱众。《弟子规》教人向善，培养人的德行，通过学习《弟子规》明白和学到了做人的道理。

　　以后将用《弟子规》来规范言行，指导生活和学习，培养自己孝亲尊师、温和谦逊的品德，以恭敬的心、谦卑的态度、彬彬有礼的行为，来对待一切人、事、物，不断提升自己的品行修养。

Disciple's Rules of Discipleship - Part 11

　　At the end of last semester, the school organized the study and recitation of the Disciple's Rules. This semester, the activity of practicing the Rules of Discipleship has been introduced again. I have benefited a lot from studying and reciting the Rules of Discipleship. It makes us know a lot about how we should behave. The "Rules of Discipleship, Sages' Teachings, First Filial Piety and Brotherhood, Second Honesty and Faith, Loving All People, Kindness and Benevolence, Learning to Write if We Have Extra Strength" have greatly inspired our outlook on life and values.

　　"To enter is filial piety, to leave is brotherly love, to be prudent and trustworthy, to love all people, and to learn the language when one has the ability to do so" is the general program of the Rules of Discipleship. Through careful study and realization, I have come to understand a lot of truths about what I can and cannot do in the world.

　　Disciple's Rules? Honour", mainly focuses on learning to develop good daily behavioral habits, cultivating care and patience in the daily bits and pieces, so as to develop good self-discipline habits and become a moral and educated person in the future. This part is also applicable to our school, reminding every teacher to pay attention to all kinds of daily behavioral details, consciously abide by all school systems and the daily code of conduct for teachers, and to be an educated teacher with a high level of basic personal qualities.

　　Studying the Discipleship Rules, I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of thoughts. It is very necessary for a person's growth. Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way will this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world. I have learned two things through the study of the Discipleship Rules:

　　The first is to be grateful. For a person, should repay the greatest kindness is the parents' 'nurturing grace, so the first chapter of the "discipleship" is "into the filial piety" gratitude embodied in a "filial piety" on the word, "parents call should not slow down parents do not be lazy" "Parents teach to listen to parents responsible for parents must be obedient to", think about these are we do children of filial piety parents of the basic requirements, but I have a lot of did not do. Through this study, I hope to double my efforts in the future study and life, and I hope to give my hard-working parents a happy life.

　　Secondly, we should be careful and trustworthy and love all people. The Rules of Discipleship teach people to be good and cultivate their virtues, and through the study of the Rules of Discipleship one understands and learns what it means to be a human being.

　　In the future, we will use the "Disciple's Rules" to regulate our speech and behavior, guide our life and study, cultivate our own filial piety and respect for parents and teachers, gentle and humble character, treat all people, events and things with a respectful heart, humble attitude and courteous behavior, and continuously improve our own character and cultivation.

弟子规的心得体会 篇12

　　《弟子规》是中国优秀的传统文化，是童蒙养正的最佳教材，教育学生的一剂良方。这次有机会去南京学习传统文化，我受益匪浅。我的体会是：《弟子规》能治社会百病，能给千家万户带来幸福，真学真干真受益，谁学谁受益，早学早受益。

　　20xx年XX月，我校正式推行学习《弟子规》，学习《弟子规》的活动虽然开展起来了，但是，如何学？真学真干，还是学不干；教师先学，从我做起，还是只叫学生学，自己不沾边等等却是是我校学习传统文化需要解决的主要问题。

　　《弟子规》能治社会百病，能给千家万户来幸福，这是真的吗？是真的，千真万确。这关键是看你想不想治，想不想幸福；真想还是假想，想的厉害不厉害。如果真想而且又想得厉害，那就必须真学真干。所谓真学，就是放下自己原有的陋知陋习，恭恭敬敬地学习圣贤人地教诲；所谓真干，就是真力行，真实践。只有这样学，这样干，才能真受益。

　　在学习期间，来自北京的一位年轻小伙，由于父母不和，导致家庭关系十分紧张，使他和父亲之间产生了许多激烈的矛盾，以致使他做了一些严重伤害父母的事。通过学习传统文化，他明白了做人子女应有孝顺父母之心，要养父母之心，养父母之身，养父母之智，对他触动很大，在大会分享上，他痛哭流涕，三跪三扣头表达他对父母的忏悔，场面十分感人。这就是传统文化的魅力，他拯救了一个家庭，这也是学传统文化的好处。

　　人们认为现在的孩子难管难教，真让人发愁。尤其是学校老师面对开学的`压力，往往只注重对学生智育的培养，而忽视对学生品行道德的教育。《礼记、学记》指出：“建国君民，教学为先。”这是治国的根本。中国伟大的教育家、思想家孔子，他教育思想的核心正是育人为本，德育为先，这完全体现在《弟子规》一书之中。我校自从推行学习《弟子规》老师和学生都发生了明显的变化，但在真学真干上还力行不够。比方学校安排每周六全校教职工必须参加

　　《弟子规》学习，我们摸着良心说说我们抱怨过没有！我们是被“必须”限制而被动在学习，我想抱着这种心态学习，肯定收获不大，甚至没有收获。学习《弟子规》重在践行，要求学生做到的，我们老师必须先做到，用我们的实际行动为学生做榜样，因为身教胜于言教。所以，我们在今后的学习中一定要以身作则，真抓实干，从我做起，从点滴做起，真学真干。愿我们共同努力把海天学校学习《弟子规》的活动推向高潮。

Disciple's rules of experience Article 12

　　Disciple's Rules is an excellent traditional Chinese culture, which is the best teaching material for children and a good remedy for educating students. This time I had the opportunity to go to Nanjing to study traditional culture, I benefited a lot. My experience is: "Disciple's Rules" can cure all diseases in the society and bring happiness to thousands of families, and it is really beneficial to learn and work, whoever learns it will benefit from it, and whoever learns it will benefit from it as early as possible.

　　XX in 20xx, our school formally implement the study of "disciple rules", learning "disciple rules" activities although carried out, but, how to learn? Really learn to do, or learn not to do; teachers learn first, from me to start, or only call students to learn, they do not touch and so on is our school learning traditional culture needs to solve the main problem.

　　Is it true that the Book of Discipleship can cure all social ills and bring happiness to thousands of families? It is true. It depends on whether you want to be cured or not, whether you want to be happy or not; whether you really want it or not, whether you want it badly or not. If you really want to think and think hard, then you must really learn and really do. The so-called true learning, is to put down their original bad knowledge and habits, respectfully learn the teachings of the sages; the so-called true work, is the true force, true practice. Only this way to learn, this way to do, can really benefit.

　　During the study, a young man from Beijing, whose family relationship was very tense due to his parents' disagreement, caused a lot of intense conflicts between him and his father, which led him to do some serious harm to his parents. Through the study of traditional culture, he understood that children should be filial to their parents, and that they should nourish their parents' heart, body and wisdom, which touched him so much that he cried bitterly and expressed his repentance to his parents by kneeling three times and withholding his head at the conference, which was a very touching scene. This is the charm of traditional culture, he saved a family, and this is the benefit of learning traditional culture.

　　People think that children nowadays are difficult to manage and teach, which is really worrying. In particular, school teachers, faced with the `pressure' of the school year, tend to focus only on the cultivation of students' intellectual development, while neglecting the education of students' character and morality. According to the Book of Rites and Records of Learning, "Teaching is the first step in building a nation and a people." This is the root of ruling a country. China's great educator, thinker Confucius, the core of his educational thinking is precisely the education of people, moral education first, which is fully embodied in the book "Disciple Rules". Since the implementation of our school to learn "disciple rules" teachers and students have undergone significant changes, but in the real learning and doing on the force is not enough. For example, the school arranges every Saturday, the whole school staff must participate in

　　When we study the Book of Discipleship, we can say with a clear conscience that we have not complained! We are restricted by the "must" and passive in the study, I think with this mentality to learn, certainly not much gain, or even no gain. Learning the "Discipleship Rules" focuses on practicing, requiring students to do, we teachers must first do, with our practical actions for students to do, because teaching by example is better than teaching by words. Therefore, we must set an example in the future learning, real work, start from me, start from the little things, real learning and real work. May we work together to culminate the study of the Disciple's Rules in Haitian School.

弟子规的心得体会 篇13

　　从本学期伊始在学生和教师中，掀起学习《弟子规》的热潮。下面我谈谈自己的粗浅认识、做法和体会。

　　一、对《弟子规》的认识。

　　《弟子规》原名《训蒙文》，是清代李毓秀根据宋朝朱熹的《童蒙须知》改编，后经清代儒生贾存仁修订，改名为《弟子规》，是一本教导儿童怎样待人接物的书籍。《弟子规》一书内容简明通俗，不谈空洞理论和教条，而是教导基本的品德修养、孝亲友爱以及生活起居中应有的礼节。在现实生活中有一些人还存在着素质低下、道德滑坡、不忠不孝、不仁不义、不知书不达礼、没有责任感和事业心，生活如同行尸走肉等现象。这些人缺的是什么？我觉得缺的就是民族优秀文化的熏陶。《弟子规》一书深刻地训导我们如何孝顺父母、友爱兄弟；形成良好的品德和生活习惯；如何具备博爱的精神及正确的读书方法等。诸如书中所写的：“父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，应勿懒；出必告，返必面；居有常，业毋变；”这是孝道的基本要求。“兄道友，弟道恭；兄弟睦，孝在中；称尊长，勿呼名；对尊长，勿显能”。乃为如何友爱兄弟，尊长爱幼最基本的语言及行为规范。另外，书中通过列举生活中最易被视作琐碎的习惯及现象，进而训导我们如何养成良好生活习惯、具备博爱的精神和正确的读书学习方法等。本书中的每一章、每一句、列举的都是生活当中最为普遍、最基本性的习惯和现象，而这些习惯和现象可以说是人人皆知，但有好多人做起来却不是那么容易，不是不知道，而是不去做。书中告诉我们一个道理：不要因小而不为，良好的习惯都是从一点一滴做起的'。

　　二、自己的几点做法。

　　①以自己先学，带学生跟着学，不懂的字句问语文老师或上网查资料，课间或班会课与学生交流讨论，各抒己见，说说自己对哪些句子、段子印象深刻，哪些平常没做到或没意识到，现在怎样做等，对照《弟子规》一书，哪些没做到位，或还需改进的学生的不良言行，要求及时发现，及时纠正。

　　②学懂了要求会背诵，可以在跑操时一边跑一背，既培养、锻炼学生的注意力，又能使学生跑出节奏，增强学生的集体意识，团队意识和主人翁精神。

　　三、自己的几点感受。

　　通过学习《弟子规》一书，使我受益匪浅。

　　①认识提高了。每天应该做哪些事，不应该做哪些事，什么时候应该做哪些事，不应该做哪些事，怎么做好，人人都清楚。也许有人认为这是一本儿童读物，是教育小孩子的和成年人没有多大关系，其实做为中华民族的优秀传统文化，我们每个人都没有理由去抛弃的。虽然时代在变化、人们的思想观念也在更新，但中国国学博大精深，虽然历时久远，可仍具有极强的阅读价值和深刻的教育意义。我们通过中国古典文化的熏陶，对我们树立正确的世界观、人生观和价值观，以增强自已的审美底蕴和人文意识都是非常有益的。

　　②心灵净化了。通过此次学习，我感到对自已是一场深刻的思想革命、一次心灵的洗涤，克服平时自己的一些惰性，要求学生做到的，必须自己身体力行，率先垂范，处处走在学生的前面，为学生做好表率。

　　③觉悟增强了。学校发起《弟子规》教学活动就是让我们接受民族优秀文化的熏陶，通过学习来提高每同学的思想修养和道德素质以及如何做到学以致用，树立正确的世界观、人生观、价值观，从而在学习中增强自身的责任心，严格遵守学校的规章制度，充分保证执行能力，为创建和谐家庭、和谐班级、和谐校园乃至和谐社会做出我们应有的贡献。一次偶然的机会，我通读了《弟子规》，接受了传统文化的教育和熏陶，有了深刻的人生感悟。

　　首先，对长辈有礼有敬、对兄弟恭敬友爱。对个人而言，父母的养育之恩是我们应该报答的最大恩情。其次，在待人接物方面要怀着恭敬之心，为人要谦虚。恭敬与谦虚是分不开的，没有内在的谦虚很难做到对人恭敬。“满招损，谦受益。”“虚心使人进步，骄傲使人落后。”虽然从小就念过许多这样的名言警句，但有时在具体工作中还是免不了有争强好胜、骄傲自满的情绪在里面，想一想骄傲自满的确给自己带来了很多损伤，也让自己落后于别人一大截。读完《弟子规》后，我认识到恭敬和谦虚的重要性，因此，我在以后的工作中，要保持谦虚的态度，遇事要三思而后行，多向身边的领导和同事学习，不断提高自己的业务水平。再次，养成良好的工作习惯。《弟子规》规范人的行为，一句话一个道理，它给了我们很多工作中的启示。作为党员，我们要正视自己，实事求是地发现问题和不足，认真改正和弥补，在工作中积极进取。最后，找准自己的人生目标。《弟子规》教人向善，长养人的德行，目的是让人活得有意义。而我也是通过阅读《弟子规》明白和学到了做人的道理，人生是一个过程，过程如何很大程度上取决于你选择了一个什么样的人生目标。党的宗旨是为人民服务，作为一名党员，要多倾听群众呼声、接受群众监督、尊重群众意见，真正做到“情为民所系，利为民所谋，权为民所用。”

　　细节决定成败。《弟子规》就是教导我们要重视生活行为的各个细节，用简明通俗的语言，教导大家如何提高修养、孝亲友爱以及生活起居中待人接物所应有的礼节。我们都是普通人，大多时候，都是在做一些普通的小事，如果每个人都认真对待自己所在岗位的每一件小事，都注重细节，把小事做细、做透、做好，那就会出现“细中见精”、“小中见大”的不平凡。

　　阅读《弟子规》，我想不仅是一个提高个人修养的过程，更是一个思想升华的过程，对一个人的成长来说，是十分必要的。

　　爱周围的人，爱这个世界。只有这样，这个社会才能变成和谐的社会，这个世界才能变成和谐的世界。通过中国古典文化的熏陶，对我们树立正确的世界观、人生观和价值观，以增强自己的审美底蕴和人文情怀都是非常有益的。能认真读过，用心去做，并且养成良好的个人习惯，便可终身受益。

Disciple's rules of experience Part 13

　　From the beginning of this semester in the students and teachers, set off the study of the "Discipleship Rules" craze. Below I will talk about my own rough understanding, practice and experience.

I. Knowledge of the Book of Discipleship.

　　Originally known as "The Book of Discipleship", it was adapted by Li Yuxiu of the Qing Dynasty from Zhu Xi's "Instructions for Children" of the Song Dynasty, and then revised by Jia Cunren, a Confucian scholar of the Qing Dynasty, and renamed "The Rules of Discipleship", which is a book that teaches children how to treat people and other people. The content of the book is simple and popular, and it does not talk about empty theories and dogmas, but teaches basic character cultivation, filial piety and friendship, as well as etiquette in life and living. In real life, there are still some people who have low quality, slipping morality, no loyalty, no filial piety, no benevolence, no righteousness, no knowledge of books and no manners, no sense of responsibility and no sense of enterprise, and live like walking corpses, etc. What do these people lack? What do these people lack? I think what they lack is the inculcation of excellent national culture. The book "The Rules of Discipleship" profoundly instructs us how to be filial to parents and love our brothers; how to form good morals and habits; how to have the spirit of fraternity and the correct way of reading, etc. In the book, it is written that: "We should not be ignorant of books and rites, and have no sense of responsibility and enterprise. This is the basic requirement of filial piety. "Brotherhood is friendly, brotherhood is respectful, brotherhood is harmonious, filial piety is in the middle; call your elders by name, do not call them by name; show your elders by name, do not show your ability". It is the most basic language and behavioral norms for how to love brothers and respect elders and love children. In addition, the book lists the most trivial habits and phenomena in life, and then instructs us on how to develop good living habits, the spirit of fraternity, and the correct way to read and study. Each chapter of this book, each sentence, listed in the life of the most common, the most basic habits and phenomena, and these habits and phenomena can be said to be known to everyone, but there are a lot of people to do it is not so easy, not do not know, but do not go to do. The book tells us a truth: do not because of the small but not to do, good habits are from a little by little to do'.

II. A few of my own practices.

　　① to learn by themselves first, take the students to follow, do not understand the words and phrases to ask the language teacher or the Internet to look up information, between classes or classroom sessions to exchange discussions with students, each express their views, say what sentences and paragraphs they are impressed, which usually do not do or do not realize, how to do now, etc., against the "Rules of Discipleship" book, which did not do, or still need to improve the students' bad words and deeds, require timely detection and timely correction.

　　② Learning to understand the requirements will be recited, you can run a recitation while running exercises, not only to cultivate and exercise the attention of students, but also to make students run out of rhythm, enhance the students' collective consciousness, teamwork and the spirit of mastery.

III. A few of my own feelings.

　　I have benefited greatly from studying the book "Discipleship".

　　① Awareness has been raised. What should be done every day, what should not be done, when should be done, what should not be done, how to do a good job, everyone is clear. Perhaps some people think that this is a children's book, is the education of small children and adults do not have much to do, in fact, as the Chinese nation's excellent traditional culture, we have no reason to abandon each person. Although the times are changing, people's ideological concepts are also being updated, but the Chinese national culture is profound, although time-honored, but still has a strong reading value and profound educational significance. Through the inculcation of classical Chinese culture, it is very beneficial for us to establish a correct worldview, outlook on life and values, and to enhance our aesthetic and humanistic consciousness.

　　② Mind purification. Through this study, I feel that self is a profound ideological revolution, a spiritual cleansing, to overcome some of their usual inertia, students are required to do, must be physically active, take the lead, walk in front of students everywhere, for students to do a good job as a role model.

　　③Awareness is enhanced. The school initiated the "Discipleship Rules" teaching activities is to allow us to accept the cultivation of the nation's excellent culture, through the study to improve the ideological cultivation and moral quality of each student and how to learn to apply, set up a correct view of the world, outlook on life, values, so as to enhance their own sense of responsibility in the study, strict compliance with the school's rules and regulations, to fully ensure the implementation of the capacity for the creation of a harmonious family, a harmonious class, harmonious We will make our contribution to create a harmonious family, a harmonious class, a harmonious campus and even a harmonious society. Once by chance, I read through the "Discipleship Rules", received the education and cultivation of traditional culture, and had a profound sense of life.

　　First, we should be courteous and respectful to our elders and respectful and friendly to our brothers. Personally, our parents' nurturing is the greatest favor we should repay. Secondly, we should treat people with respect and be humble. Respect and modesty are inseparable, no inner modesty is difficult to do to others respectfully. "Fullness invites loss, humility benefits." "Modesty leads to progress, pride leads to backwardness." Although I have read many of these quotes and sayings since I was a child, but sometimes in the specific work or can not help but have a strong, complacent emotions inside, think about it complacency does bring a lot of damage to themselves, but also let themselves behind others a big cut. After reading the "Disciple's Rules", I recognize the importance of respect and modesty, therefore, I have to maintain a modest attitude in the future work, think twice before acting, learn more from the leaders and colleagues around me, and constantly improve their own business level. Again, develop good working habits. Discipleship rules regulate human behavior, a sentence a reason, it gives us a lot of inspiration in the work. As party members, we should face ourselves squarely, realistically find problems and shortcomings, seriously correct and make up for them, and make positive progress in our work. Finally, find your life goal. The Discipline of the Disciples teaches people to be good and grow in virtue, aiming to make people live a meaningful life. And I also read "Discipleship Rules" to understand and learn the truth of being a person, life is a process, how the process depends largely on what kind of life goal you choose. The purpose of the party is to serve the people, as a member of the party, we should listen to the masses, accept the masses to supervise, respect the opinions of the masses, and really do "love for the people, profit for the people, power for the people."

　　Details determine success or failure. The Rules of Discipleship teaches us to pay attention to the details of our behavior, and uses simple and popular language to teach us how to improve our cultivation, filial piety and friendship, as well as the etiquette we should have when dealing with others in our daily lives. We are ordinary people, most of the time, are doing some ordinary small things, if everyone takes every small thing in their positions seriously, focus on the details, the small things to do fine, do through, do a good job, then there will be a "fine see fine", "small see great! "extraordinary.

　　Reading "Discipleship Rules", I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of thoughts, which is very necessary for one's growth.

　　Love the people around you and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world. Through the inculcation of classical Chinese culture, it is very beneficial for us to establish a correct worldview, outlook on life and values in order to enhance our aesthetic and humanistic feelings. If you can read it carefully, put your heart into it, and develop good personal habits, you will benefit for life.

弟子规的心得体会 篇14

　　最近，我读了一本书叫《弟子规》。

　　《弟子规》被称为我国的国学，是我国清代非常流行的一种启蒙课本，用三字一句的方式进行伦理道德的教育，其中有几句是这样写的：“父母教、需敬听、父母责、须顺承。”这句话的意思是：父母的教诲要恭敬认真地听个明白；父母的责备、批评，应该虚心、顺从地接受。现在生活条件好了，很多同龄孩子学习不肯用功，非常贪玩，老师布置的作业不及时完成，甚至不听老师和父母的话，学习成绩就不能提高。

　　“奸巧语、秽污词、市井气、切戒之。”这句话的意思是：尖酸刻薄的话，下流不干净的`话，千万不要说。粗俗无赖的不良习气，要坚决戒除掉。经常有许多小朋友喜欢说脏话，既不文明也不礼貌，俗话说：习惯成自然。要是老说脏话，长大了就改不了这个坏习惯。

　　“凡是人、皆须爱、天同覆、地同载。”这句话的意思是：无论什么人都必须互相关心爱护，因为我们生活在同一片天空下，生活在同一片土地上。我们小学生不管成绩好坏、家庭条件如何，从小就要养成谦虚谨慎、互相关心、互相爱护的优秀品格，团结一致，长大了才能为国家做贡献。

　　《弟子规》这本书上的好句很多，意义也非常深刻，值得我学习一辈子。

Disciple's rules experience Part 14

　　I recently read a book called Discipleship.

　　The Disciple's Rules, known as China's national school, was a very popular initiation textbook in China during the Qing Dynasty, which taught ethics and morals in three words and one sentence, a few of which read, "Parents' teachings need to be listened to respectfully, and parents' chastisements should be accepted with humility and obedience." The meaning of this sentence is: parents' teachings should be listened to respectfully and conscientiously; parents' reproaches and criticisms should be accepted humbly and obediently. Now that living conditions are better, many children of the same age refuse to study hard, are very playful, do not complete the homework assigned by the teacher in a timely manner, and do not even listen to the teacher and parents, so their academic performance cannot be improved.

　　"Adulterous words, filthy words, and marketplace spirit, abstain from them." The meaning of this sentence is: Sharp words, nasty and unclean `words', must not be spoken. The bad habit of vulgarity and rascality should be firmly abstained from. Often many children like to talk dirty, neither civilized nor polite, as the saying goes: habit becomes nature. If you keep swearing, you will not be able to change this bad habit when you grow up.

　　"All people must love each other; the sky is covered by the same sky and the earth is covered by the same earth." The meaning of this saying is: no matter what people must care and love each other, because we live under the same sky and on the same land. No matter how good or bad our grades are, or what our family conditions are, we elementary school students should develop the excellent character of being modest and prudent, caring for each other and loving each other from a young age, and be united as one, so that we can grow up and make contributions to our country.

　　The book "Discipleship" is full of good sentences and profound meanings that are worth studying for the rest of my life.

弟子规的心得体会 篇15

　　参加为期4天的培训班学习后，听了许多老师的分享，听了很多有智慧的老师的讲座，感觉受益匪浅，我想，这一切，最初起步的基石皆在于《弟子规》的学习与力行。很多人说《弟子规》里的道理很简单，早就知晓，我很是羡慕，因为有很多道理我是在学习了《弟子规》之后才真正懂的。《弟子规》启蒙了我的智慧，震撼着我的心灵。学校推行和落实《弟子规》也快一年了，这一年是一个从感性到理性的过程，也是一个不断提高个人修养和思想升华的过程。起初我不知道《弟子规》的魅力，也不知道弟子规所讲的是什么。开始接触的时候我也很茫然，压力更大的'是我更不知道如何在工作中去贯彻学习弟子规，所以越学越觉得很烦，越到后面我面临的压力越大。不知道到底是要坚持还是放弃？

　　而在继续不断深入学习《弟子规》后，我的这一切的困惑慢慢都解决了。在这里，我找到了人生的坐标和方向，通过学习《弟子规》，我还了解了许多礼仪，懂得了许多做人道理和与人相处的原则和一些技巧，最主要应该做到诚信、友善、博爱相待，尊敬师长，尊重周围一切人。要坐有坐像，站有站相，做到“步从容，立端正，揖深圆，拜恭敬”。日常生活中，不管是同事还是朋友，相处久了，避免不了有小小的摩擦，要善于沟通，如果你处理得当，就会化干戈为玉帛；反之则矛盾加深，最后连朋友都没得做。交友必须以诚相待，相互帮助、体谅、支持和鼓励，做到“将加人，先问己，己不欲，即速已”，否则，“损友来，益友却”；朋友有错，不能只记着讨厌人家，即使讨厌也不要讨厌得过了头，因为“嫉之甚，祸且作”，真诚的人就会友好地指出，否则“过不规，道两亏”；即使是朋友不对也要宽容对方，要齐心协力最新精品推荐地去做每一件事，不要互相依赖，推卸责任，更不能互相猜疑，做到相互照顾共同做事。

　　《弟子规》包含了《孝经》《礼》等传统文化和思想，它不但教会了我们如何为人处世，如何孝顺父母、尊敬老师、友爱兄弟和同学，它还教会了我们要有孝心、恭敬心和感恩心。《弟子规》像阳光一样，给伦理失纲、人心不古、精神缺失的现代社会的人们指引了一条光明之道。尤其是作为一名技工学校的教育者，我们更是任道而重远。教育者的使命是关注孩子的一生幸福，我们不但要教给学生知识文化，更要教会他们做人。

　　弟子规与我们同行，我们要为学生的幸福人生奠基。我们要坚定信心，持之以恒，做好自己，影响孩子，最终达到正己化人。

Discipleship experience Part 15

　　After attending the 4-day training course, I felt greatly benefited from listening to the sharing of many teachers and the lectures of many wise teachers. I think the cornerstone of the initial start lies in the learning and practicing of the "Disciple's Rules". Many people say that the truths in the Rules of Discipleship are very simple and have been known for a long time. I am envious of them because there are a lot of truths that I really understand only after I have studied the Rules of Discipleship. The Rules of Discipleship have enlightened my wisdom and shaken my heart. It has been almost one year since the school implemented the "Discipleship Rules", which is a process from sensibility to rationality, as well as a process of continuous improvement of personal cultivation and sublimation of thoughts. At first I didn't know the charm of "Disciple's Rules" or what it was about. I was at a loss when I started to contact it, and the pressure was even greater 'cause I didn't know how to carry out the study of Disciple's Rules in my work, so the more I learned, the more I felt annoyed, and the more I came to the back, the more pressure I faced. I didn't know whether to stick with it or give up.

　　And after continuing to study "Disciple's Rules" in depth, all these confusions of mine were slowly solved. Here, I found the coordinates and direction of life, through the study of "Discipleship Rules", I also understand a lot of etiquette, know a lot of reasoning and get along with others and some of the principles and skills, the most important thing should be done honesty, friendliness, fraternity treatment, respect for teachers and elders, and respect for all people around. To sit like sitting, stand like standing, do "step calmly, upright, bow deep round, worship respect". Daily life, whether colleagues or friends, get along for a long time, can not avoid a small friction, to be good at communication, if you handle properly, will be turned into peace; on the contrary, the contradiction is deepened, and finally even the friends do not have to do. Friends must be treated with sincerity, mutual help, understanding, support and encouragement, to achieve "will be added to the people, ask yourself first, I do not want, that is, speed has been", otherwise, "the loss of friends to come, good friends, but"; friends have the wrong, can not just remember to hate people, even if they hate not to hate too much! The head, because "cynicism is very, woe and make", sincere people will be friendly to point out, otherwise "over the rules, Road two losses"; even if friends are not right to tolerate each other, to work together to do everything, do not rely on each other to shirk their responsibilities, not to guess each other. Do not rely on each other, shirk their responsibilities, not to mention mutual suspicion, to do mutual care to do things together.

　　The Rules of Discipleship contains traditional culture and ideas such as the Xiaojing and the Rites. It not only teaches us how to conduct ourselves in the world, how to be filial to our parents, how to respect our teachers, and how to love our brothers and classmates, but it also teaches us to have filial piety, a respectful heart and a thankful heart. The Disciple's Rules are like sunshine, showing a bright way to people in the modern society, where ethics are out of order, people's hearts are out of order, and spirituality is lacking. Especially as a technical school educator, we have a long way to go. The mission of educators is to focus on the happiness of children's life. We should not only teach students knowledge and culture, but also teach them to be human beings.

　　Discipleship is with us as we lay the foundation for a happy life for our students. We have to be firm and persistent, do well for ourselves, influence our children, and ultimately achieve the goal of correcting ourselves and transforming others.

结语： 在深入研读《弟子规》的过程中，我深感其教诲之深远，不仅涵盖了个人修养的方方面面，更触及了为人处世的根本原则。从“父母呼，应勿缓；父母命，行勿懒”中，我体会到孝顺的重要性；“朝起早，夜眠迟，老易至，惜此时”让我认识到珍惜时间的价值。这些教诲如同明灯，照亮了我前行的道路。通过反复阅读与实践，我逐渐领悟到《弟子规》不仅仅是一本教条，更是一份生活指南，引导我们如何在现代社会中做一个有道德、有修养的人。

Conclusion: In the process of studying the Rules of Discipleship in depth, I deeply feel the profoundness of its teachings, which not only covers all aspects of personal cultivation, but also touches on the fundamental principles of how to conduct oneself in the world. I realized the importance of filial piety from "Do not be slow in responding to the call of your parents; do not be lazy in carrying out the orders of your parents"; and "Get up early in the morning and sleep late at night; old age is easy to come to, cherish this time" made me realize the value of cherishing time. These teachings are like bright lights that illuminate my way forward. Through repeated reading and practice, I have come to realize that "The Rules of Discipleship" is not only a dogma, but also a guide to life, guiding us to be a moral and cultivated person in modern society.